There was a time when everything seemed so perfect between you. Communication was effortless, what few conflicts you had were brief and easily resolved, and your relationship was filled with pleasure and joy.

 

That seems like a distant memory now. There’s conflict nonstop, or, perhaps worse, a cold distance between you. You feel misunderstood and demonized. Your efforts aren’t recognized. Maybe one of you is wondering if this relationship can even continue. Things seem so hopeless.

 

And yet, there is hope!

 

I want to help you.

 

My name is Laval Martin. I’m a registered social worker (RSW) and the holder of a master’s degree in social work (MSW) and I’ve been in the field since 2006. I practice Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), which balances emotions and rationality.

 

I am calm, validating, non-judgmental, and also able to challenge you to improve yourself and your relationship.

 

I strongly believe that every relationship can benefit from the skills taught through DBT. I use them myself and have found them to be highly effective. When you learn to apply these skills in your life, you will see tangible changes in your relationship.

 

I engage in relationship therapy in different types of relationships:

Imagine being able to have peaceful conversations, even about contentious issues. Imagine a return to intimacy and joy.

 

I don’t know what will happen with your relationship, however, to the extent that everyone involved (including me) is prepared to put in the time and effort, things can dramatically improve.

 

I’m committed to putting in the energy to improve your relationship. Are you? Then let’s connect.

P.S. What if you have a partner who won’t come with you? While it’s ideal to have everyone present, there are other possibilities. If you have a reluctant partner, we can meet without them.